Feel

2008 June 26
by Tyler

Feel by Matthew ElliottA few weeks ago I finished a book titled Feel by Matthew Elliott. Essentially the book is about debunking the myth that psychologists and now churches have put out that we need to follow reason or logic and not our emotions or feelings. The book was challenging for me. My entire life I had always thought back on my big mistakes as ones driven by emotions rather than a logical thought process. I have no doubt most of you have done the same. We think that it is because of our “heat in the moment” emotions that we make mistakes. Elliott has changed my thinking.

If I were to try and summarize how Elliott goes about changing my thinking I am sure I would do a poor job. Elliott uses scientific data, psychological studies, and Biblical studies on how emotions are viewed in the Bible. These things were more than convincing to me that I am ruining my relationship with Christ by living strictly through reason and logic. I am a very organizational person, I do not color outside of the lines. But I think I’ve been missing God’s ability to speak to me through my emotions.

One interesting thing to note about the book is that it tries to incorporate blogging. At the end of each chapter their a section of personal responses and then include a link of where to join in the conversation. Often we think of blogging and books as two very separate things, but this book is trying to bridge the gap. I’m not sure if it liked it or not. Often, I found myself just skipping to the next chapter.

Overall: Great book, recommend it to anyone who feels like they are living an emotionless life.

Matthew Elliott’s blog

Book Website

What is more important: emotion or reason?

  • http://ash-nits.blogspot.com ash

    all things in moderation…rather than either/or….in my opinion.

  • http://www.aworshipfulheart.typepad.com Jan Owen

    IF you think about it, God gave us our emotions. They are for a purpose and they tell us something – for good or bad. When we deny our emotions, we deny reality, and that keeps us in the dark as we walk through life. Why are we angry? Why do I feel sad? What can I learn from that? All are healthy questions. Ignoring our emotions is not healthy – emotionally or spiritually. There is a great book you might want to check out called “Emotionally Healthy Spirituality” by Peter Scazzero and he addressed this exact topic, pointing out that if we only use logic and reason, we are one dimensional as well as unhealthy.

    And btw, to me the gospel is very illogical, it is very unreasonable. To send God to earth to die on a cross so that I might live forever is not really logical. In fact it seems HIGHLY improbable! There is a mystery to God we cannot grasp except to say “I will never fully understand” and let it go! God is big, big enough to defy logic and reason. (miracles are not logical, are they?)

    so walk through the doors of your emotions and see why you feel the way you do and learn from it.

  • http://www.amoslanka.com amoslanka

    obviously the right place to be is the propper mixture of emotion and reason. a wise friend once taught me the difference in emotion between your reaction and your response. a reaction is like a reflex – you touch a fire, and automatically jerk your hand back. a response is something that, though not forsaking the value of the emotion itself, applies reason to the emotion and acts based on that as opposed to the wild, unpredictable, actions of a reaction.

    i think its also neccessary to note the distinction between emotion and heart (to feel). in a way you could parallel the relationship of these to reaction and response as I said above. Its impossible to love and live life as Christ intended us to do without having heart. But simply acting uncontrollably and unpredictably on whatever emotion comes to the doorstep of your heart is wreckless and dangerous. to act on it responsibly but not denying its existence or effect upon you is the right way to feel. in my opinion :)

  • http://www.sovannsblog.blogspot.com Sovann

    Wow, sounds like a great book.
    Emotion flows out of our beliefs and thoughts.
    “And the greatest of these is Love”
    Love is an emotion and action.
    I agree with the wisdom of all things in moderation however these days
    I am wanting to love extravagantly. I am wanting more passion, more expression, more compassion, more generosity of spirit – I moderate myself too much.
    Time to lose/let go of control.

  • http://www.vagabondrunn.wordpress.com Kyle

    I have to admit, when I read this blog right now, I’m convinced I need to read this book.

    So I leave now, to go purchase the book. Thanks!

    http://www.vagabondrunn.wordpress.com
    http://www.dialoguechurch.wordpress.com

  • http://brentinworship.com/blog brent(inWorship)

    This book looks really good. I am definitely gonna pick it up.

    Emotions are a huge part of our lives and our Christian walk. Faith is a decision based on emotion, not logic.

  • http://newheights.wordpress.com/ Darin

    Sounds interesting.

    I have argued that many times we cover emotions and call them logic without even knowing it.

    I think you have some great responses. While emotions are essential because we are broken they too can be distorted.

    WE really can’t be trusted with either our logic or our feelings. Maybe something in the book will change my mind.

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