The Simple Life

2011 January 04
by Tyler

Maybe it is just part of the “growing up” process, but I’ve found in myself a desire to simplify life more every year. Early in our marriage, we went from two cars down to one, and I commuted to work on a bike. That was a pretty big shift for me. We also try to pack lunches and eat at home as often as possible.

Especially in the last year with us both working full-time and going to school, I made lots of little changes to simplify my life. Just one month ago I did the unthinkable for me; I canceled our cable HDtv. I never, ever thought I’d do it because I love to relax watching sports but I always knew it was a decision that needed to be made, I just wasn’t sure when.

It is quite common in today’s culture to fill what we sense as voids in our life with things. Gadgets, new clothes, new cars, new toys, often just add more complexity to our lives and ultimately pull us away from the things that matter most: “God, family, and friends.”

This video was incredibly popular 2 years ago, but it serves as a helpful reminder (watch video here RSS readers):

It is a modern phenomenon that as we “advance” more in so many ways, we become less grateful for and happy about life.

I do miss watching ESPN and having my DVR to watch Survivor in HD after a long day at work on Wednesdays, but I’ve found that instead of spending endless hours basking in the glow of my flatscreen tube I spend time reading or talking with Rose.

Maybe what we need is not the next 4G phone or 3D tv, but a more simple life that allows for time and space with the things that matter most.

I don’t know about you, but I know my life needs more space not clutter.

  • Matt Ralph

    Amen, brother.

    I haven’t had cable or a TV for three years but ESPN3.com and subscriptions to MLB.tv and FoxSoccer.tv still manage to do me in and cut into that quality time I should be spending reading offline or hanging out with my wife.

    Thanks for the kick in the pants.

  • http://bethegospel.wordpress.com jay sauser

    I agree. I am in the midst of trying to figure out how to simplify which is turning out to be alittle bit difficult with a new baby in the house. Christmas and New Years was horrible. Every house we went to resulted in me making anywhere from 3-5 trips back and forth from the car with baby stuff.

    My blog touched on this a few days ago if you are interested… http://bethegospel.wordpress.com/2010/12/30/an-alternative-kind-of-resolution-this-year/

  • http://thoughtsaboutnothing.com Kyle Reed

    Love that video and love the thoughts

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  • http://www.thebusstopblues.com Michael Agostino

    Amen…just amen!

  • http://www.contentunderpressure.net Josh

    Good words, man.

    Two years ago, April and I got cable for the first time in our marriage. I can’t tell you how many conversations we’ve had that start with, “remember when…?”. It’s easy to lose sight of what’s really important these days with all of what the world has to offer, but nothing will ever come close to genuine relationship, both with God and others.

  • Ric Wild

    way to kick the tube!

  • Jeff

    You’ll hardly miss TV, especially when you have friends who let you invite yourself over to watch the big game.

    Somehow Kari and I have lived without cable ever since we left mom & dad’s.

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